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Successful parents use these rules. Do you?

Rule # 1 – Don’t punish.

Why doesn’t it work? Because it makes people mad. Like other forms of control, the use of disciplinary actions often enrages whoever is on the receiving end, and the experience is extra painful because they’re powerless to do anything about it. Punishment also guarantees a “push back” or resistance of some kind. It doesn’t allow someone to the experience responsibility of their actions. Think about setting boundaries instead of discipline. There is a big difference.

Rule # 2 – Reduce Power Struggles.

They can’t be avoided, but they can be minimized. Parents should be clear about what they expect of their teen. An agreement written down and signed as a contract about curfews, chores, driving rules, name calling, school, etc. can be very helpful in minimizing arguments and miscommunication. It’s also more effective when there are a few important rules, with regular reminders and consistent enforcement (if necessary), rather than a long list of rules that won’t be remembered and can’t be enforced.

Rule # 3 – Be able to collect ...

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